We are constantly shown images and pictures of what a “good relationship” looks like in the media. I frequently hear from clients that they are surprised when they hear news of a couple that looked perfect on social media or in a public setting are “splitting up”. The divorce rate remains high regardless of our increased access to each other. Some research suggests that many of today’s technological advances are contributing to the breakdown of the relational skills needed to endure through the difficult struggles facing couples.

Miscommunication can happen when we stop paying attention to the needs and desires of our partners in relationships. But it is also natural to have some individual needs that must be attended to. Couples counseling can be an especially helpful tool for people who are committed to each other, but have found themselves feeling less connected or attuned to their partner’s needs. As with any presenting issue, there is no one size fits all approach to couples counseling.